“Dear LoveLearnings.com – and this one is for, specifically, Brad Browning!
My boyfriend broke up with me about 5 months ago. I can’t say I’m that heartbroken anymore, but I’m definitely still attracted to him. Just recently, about a week ago, he’s been text messaging me and asking me all sorts of questions. He’s also been talking quite sexually to me and asking me to hang out.
I know that he wants sex (most likely), and I can’t say I would deny him the pleasure.
I’m worried that if I have sex with him, things will get complicated. I might even fall back in love with him, or worse! However, I wouldn’t mind a night or two …
Thank you so much for your time, Brad!
Thank you so much for your question, Ms. Williamson.
A No Brainer
This one is pretty simple, to be honest. I don’t think I need to give you an in-depth answer for this.
If you think you’ll fall back in love with him, you probably are going to.
The simple fact that you said you’re worried you’re going to fall back in love with him is proof enough that you shouldn’t sleep with him.
Second, if he’s making it clear that all he wants is sex, then that means he only wants sex. Nothing else.
If he wanted to get back together with you, he would have phrased this request with a completely different set of words. So if you do get together with him, keep in mind that all he’ll want to do is get into your pants.
Do You Really Want to Get Back Together?
Third, if you do want him back, having sex with him right away isn’t going to help you get him back. No, if you’ve read my book (The Ex Factor Guide), then you’ll know why exactly you shouldn’t do this.
If you really do want your ex back, then I highly recommend you check out my brand new, free video. In it, I explore whether you should be having sex with your ex or not. I’ll be talking about 7 psychological tricks you could be employing right now that will make your ex beg to get back together with you.