On the other hand, for women, it can be equally as difficult but for entirely different reasons!
See, there is a ton of guys that date online. The ratio of men to women on popular online dating websites is around 2:1. That’s pretty good odds for you ladies, right?
Around 90 percent of these guys are sleazy douche bags or just completely, creepy losers, right? You’ve probably been on a few dates with these guys only to be let down big time. I don’t blame you for wanting to give up right now, but I encourage you not to … yet.
See, you just need to know how to look for high quality men. And if you follow my tips, I guarantee your online dating experience will be 100 times better.
1. The Picture
Yes, a picture is worth a thousand words. Pick guys that have pictures of themselves with friends and family. Guys that have the loner pictures are probably loners. Unless you’re into that thing, of course.
Guys with topless pictures while somewhat alluring are probably narcissistic –especially guys that take grainy pictures of themselves from crappy cell phones.
2. The Profile
Take what men say in their profiles with a grain of salt. They’re all trying to show off. But here are a few tips to help you get the genuine ones.
If they type like a 5 year old, then chances are, you’re going to get a 5-year-old brained guy. Spelling and grammar are important here. You want a guy who is intelligent enough to keep you interested, right?
Secondly, you’ll want to pick a guy who you know has his life together. So if he doesn’t mention his job, he probably doesn’t have one.
3. The Message Back
You can tell a lot about a guy just by how he chooses to communicate with you.
Make sure he’s read your profile. That shows he actually cares about meeting up with you. Again, spelling and grammar are important. And finally, if he interests you, call him first. It’s easy to type a bunch of words on a keyboard, but having a real conversation with someone is much more difficult. You don’t have the luxury of time to come up with a good response.
I don’t like talking on the phone much, but I can tell if I’ll have chemistry by talking to them on the phone.
So those are three big tips that you can use right now to better your online dating experience!